Once upon a time there was
a young child. The child could have been a boy or a girl. The child could have
been very young, a youth, or somewhere in between. The child expressed interest in music
lessons, and because the child was loved, mom or dad took the child to a music
teacher.
“I can help your child
learn to play music,” the teacher said. “This is a wonderful gift you are
giving to your child, because it will be something that your child will enjoy
for many, many years, and because music is a gift that your child will then be
able to give back to you and also to other people.”
Mom and dad and child
were very excited about lessons. At first, everyone clapped at the slightest
sound the child made on the instrument, even if the sound was not as refined as
it could be. Everyone smiled a lot. The child was excited to learn and to play.
The parents were interested in how well the child learned how to play, and the
parents would watch the lessons carefully so that they could practice with the
child at home and have as good a time in home practices as the teacher had
during lessons.
Then one day, a phone
appeared during the lesson. The parent
was sorry that the phone tried to play its music at the same time as the child,
and the parent hastily put the phone away out of sight. Then another parent
“had” to take or make a call, so the phone stayed on during the lesson, and the
parent quickly ran out of the studio to answer or make the call. There were
other parents who did not enter the studio at all, but who stayed outside in
the car to make phone calls. Another parent sat in the next room working on phone
calendar appointments rather than attending the lesson.
Soon, even more parents
seemed to have phones out and about during lessons and group classes. The phones
did not make any noise, but they vibrated and sparkled with fun apps to play,
emails to read, text messages to answer, and Facebook posts to laugh about.
The teacher began to
worry. The teacher watched as one child would turn around during group class to
see if mom and dad were watching how well she played, only to find that mom and
dad were not watching. Both parents were so busy looking at their phones that
they never saw the child turn around to look at them.
Then the teacher began to
observe during lessons whether the parent was watching the lesson and
understood what the teacher was helping the child to learn, except the teacher
found that the parent was not paying attention to the lesson. The parent was
instead looking at the phone’s screen and whatever was more interesting there.
Lesson after lesson, the
teacher noticed that the phones demanded more and more of the parents’ attention;
the little children were not as powerful as the phone and could not gather
their parents’ attention away from the phone. So the teacher looked around for
an idea that would lessen the phones’ magic power.
The teacher found a
special table. The table was special because it had magic power of its own, and
this magic power was greater than the magic power of the phones. Parents could
not pass by the table and enter the studio room with their phones. This phone
table magically required parents to leave their phones on the little table
until it was time to leave the studio. The table also magically eliminated any
special powers the phones had to demand the parents’ attention. The parents no
longer felt a need to pick up or look at their phones as long as the phones
were on the magic table.
Everyone was happy again.
The parents were excited to watch how well the child learned to play music. The
child enjoyed playing music for the parents, who seemed to clap with enjoyment
and enthusiasm for everything the child played. The parents began to enjoy
lessons and group classes because they were paying attention to how the teacher
instructed the child. The parents had their hands free to take notes about the
lessons and group classes. The parents now understood once again how to help
the child at home in between the lessons.
Hmmm, I wonder how the magic table would fit in during rehearsals and concerts.......
ReplyDeleteIt would be right at the entrance doors, and perhaps there would need to be several. I've already had a school principal ask permission to pass out the story to the teachers in the school, because evidently it is a problem with that school's teachers. Imagine! The teachers are role modeling bad phone etiquette!
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